How do you relate to video calls? It is a modern way of socialising and working, more personable then a telephone call but less personable than an in person interaction. Here are a few ways that may assist you to embrace this way of communicating in a more relational way.
- Look your best. Hair, make up (if required), clothes (as appropriate for the occasion). This helps you to feel good about yourself on a call and present your best self.
- Minimise your picture. Not only if you are not a fan of looking at yourself but to assist you to look and focus on the other person/people. You can switch between minimising your picture and seeing it bigger.
- Be interactive. Make use of chat options, texting, even emailing participants while on the the call. Ask those who have not participated a question or ask for their comment.
- Make it fun. Have a simple theme like wear a hat or wear something of a specific color. Change virtual backgrounds. Have a drink or meal together.
- Learn how to share your screen. Show videos, use the interactive whiteboard, edit documents together, listen to music.
- Keep it short and sweet. Calls can be shorter than in person interactions to prevent fatigue.
Currently, I work and socialise in a hybrid way, in person, online/video and voice calls. I am intrigued by the flexibility and convenience that the array of modes of interacting bring to us!
How do you make video calls work for you and be more relational? You can email me your response to [email protected], I would love to hear from you!
